Sent to you by moya via Google Reader:
via 道 on 1/3/11"These seem to be two contradictory messages. On the one hand, people are supposed to speak up when they're being assaulted or harassed, or it's their fault. On the other hand, speaking up makes you a shrill bitch. What's it going to be? Are you going to be the shrill bitch who doesn't let them get away with it, or are you going to be the meek victim who deserves what you get? Because these seem to be the two available choices."